According to constructivism there is no real
and objective truth. “Reality” is simply a product of
what we think we perceive. We all tend to carry glasses which merely
reflect a section of the multiple “realities” we believe
to see. According to Epiktet, “not the things themselves worry
us. It is our opinion of them”. Therefore, problems arise when
our thoughts and behaviour start bothering us. My task as your coach
is to enlarge the section you perceive and to reveal new ones, thus
generating new ways of thinking and acting. You are the creator of
your own “reality” and very often new solutions can arise.
System theory states that all things mutually
influence each other . People “are” not, but rather act
according to the system they belong to. Different systems with different
structures, different ways of building relationships, different styles
of communicating and acting therefore draw forth different ways of
behaving and thinking in one and the same person. In addition, several
people may be contributing to the same problem and co-operating in
maintaining and boosting it. As your coach I support you in creating
new patterns and finding more appropriate ones, corresponding to the
system you are in. I therefore bear your private and business relationships
in mind and take care that the solution found is for the benefit of
all involved.